Encouraging Autonomy (Part 1)
I read through a parenting book chapter on encouraging autonomy. After all, that's one of the most important goals of raising little humans: they should be able to function on their own one day. How do we get there? By letting them solve their own problems and learn from mistakes. But that's easier said than done. "How could I let my children make mistakes and suffer failure when all they had to do was listen to me in the first place?" As I watch my 14-month old daughter explore more of her world, I can see mistakes before they happen and constantly want to correct her: "Carry the bucket by the handle, not the lid." "Hold onto the door frame to step over the bump." "Watch where you're going while you're walking." If she would just listen to my infinite wisdom, she wouldn't drop the bucket, trip and fall over the door threshold, or walk into the side table. But that's not how she'll learn. The book chapter encouraged m...